Saturday, February 28, 2026

Stories, Memories, Scriptures and BEWARE!

 Hello out there! It is a "skirt alert" windy day! 

Stories, memories, scriptures and Beware!- my post for today and probably the title also!

Jim and I will be married forty-three years in June. When we got married I was expecting our first child. Abortion had been legal for ten years. Having an abortion never even entered our minds. I was and still am very blessed to have a wonderful husband. We immediately picked a date and planned a small wedding. Sonograms were just starting to be available but really only used if the doctor thought they were necessary. I had an older doctor and he told me that I didn't need a sonogram. I was young (19) and healthy. I looked forward to my doctor visits so that I could hear my baby's heartbeat. We didn't know if we were having a son or a daughter until I gave birth and the doctor said, "It's a boy!" Our daughter was born one year and five days after our son was born. No sonogram, and again, so thankful to hear her heartbeat at each visit. I carried both of my babies the same way, down low, so people would tell me that I was going to have another boy. But they were wrong! And the doctor said, "It's a girl!" I remember how amazing it was when I felt my babies move during my pregnancies. I would place my hands on my tummy and just be in awe. I would talk to my unborn babies and sing songs. Those memories will stay with me forever. I didn't need a sonogram to know that a precious baby was growing in my womb. I'm not knocking sonograms at all, just sharing my memories of how I felt during both of my pregnancies.

The following scriptures come to mind:

2 Corinthians 5:7

We walk by faith, not by sight.

Psalm 139:14

I give you thanks that I am fearfully, wonderfully made; wonderful are your works.

For over forty years now, sonograms have let moms and dads see their baby in the womb. They not only get to hear their baby's heartbeat but are able to see them as well! Parents don't even have to wait to hear the doctor announce if they have a son or a daughter. We looked forward to seeing each and every sonogram of our grandchildren. Amazing pictures of life in the womb. Proud parents post sonogram pictures on Facebook, Instagram, etc. Some frame the photos and there are probably many of those photos on refrigerator doors. Scrapbooks have these photos as the very first picture of their son or daughter. But yet, even with this modern technology, we still have abortion. 

These scriptures come to my mind about seeing and still not understanding:

Matthew 13:13-15

"I use parables when I speak to them because they look but do not see, they listen but do not hear or understand." Isaiah's prophecy is fulfilled in them which says: 

'Listen as you will, you shall not understand. look intently as you will, you shall not see. Sluggish indeed is this people's heart. They have scarcely heard with their ears, they have firmly closed their eyes, otherwise they might see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and understand with their hearts, and turn back to me and I should heal them.'

I found out some alarming information earlier this week. The abortion pill, Plan B One-Step, is sold over the counter at drug stores, grocery stores, and some 24 hr. convenience stores. No age restriction or ID is necessary to purchase these pills. One of the generic alternatives is known as, Morning After Pill. I looked up the side effects and I urge everyone who is as concerned as I am to do the same. I live in Texas and this pill is widely available to young women who probably have no idea how harmful this pill can be. It is an abortifacient. How are young ladies supposed to think this pill is harmful if they don't even have to show their ID, or they pick it up after putting gas in their car and grabbing snacks at the same place? 

Please talk to your children, talk to your teenagers, and keep talking! Do some investigating yourself about this pill and where it's sold. Communication is key. Just because something is legal doesn't make it right! Let your children know how precious they are to you. We are fighting a spiritual battle! 

Look up Ephesians 6:10-17 - Christian Warfare -Putting on the armor of God.

I wish all of my posts could be light hearted and fun but life issues need to be shared and parents need to know the dangers that are sitting right on the grocery store shelves.

The following phone number is a National Hotline that is answered 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. 1-800-712-HELP(4357) If someone dials this number they are asked for their zip code or city and state and they will be given the address to the nearest Pregnancy Help Center/ Pregnancy Resource Center. (I called and asked questions - the lady was very nice!) English and Spanish            

Pregnancy Help Centers/ Pregnancy Resource Centers are not funded by tax dollars, they rely totally on donations. A few of the services they provide are; free pregnancy testing, free sonograms, OB/GYN referrals, and information about adoption. These centers help young ladies and women of all ages. It doesn't matter if you are single or married. They offer parenting classes, they help with diapers, clothing, car seats, etc. Volunteers wash all the new and like new clothing they receive for newborns through 3T or so depending on the center. There is so much help out there for moms and their babies, and the dads too!

Help is available for women who regret their abortion. Their stories are heartbreaking. Sharing some helpful links: hopeafterabortion.com and look up Rachel's Vineyard and Rachel's Vineyard Retreats in your area.

Planned or unplanned, a crisis pregnancy or a much prayed for pregnancy, a baby is a baby!

 Open your eyes! Let your hearts be touched!

Peace and blessings to you and yours,

near and far, wherever you are!

Bye for now, Sharla




Saturday, February 14, 2026

The Simple Things in Life and a 1967 Hit Song by "The Turtles"

 Hello out there and Happy Valentine's Day!

We were blessed with rain showers and thunder during the night and more rain this morning. The sunshine has now broken through the clouds and it's beautiful outside!

Sharing a sweet memory from many, many years ago:

I watched my first Super Bowl game on January 20, 1985. (I googled super bowl with Dan Marino and Joe Montana to get the exact date!) Super Bowl XIX  aka Super Bowl 19.

Our Super Bowl party was held in the living room of our small home. Jim had gone to our neighborhood grocery store and bought lunchmeat, cheese, chips and soda. We grabbed toys from our 13 month old son's bedroom and put them on the living room floor. The play pen was already set up in the living room. Our daughter, who was one day shy of one month old, was in my arms, Jim's arms, or asleep in the play pen. I don't remember who we wanted to win, we liked both teams and both of the quarterbacks. I don't remember the half time show or how exciting the game was or wasn't. I just remember the important part, that we were together as a family. We watched the game and took care of our babies.

The years have come and gone and it's hard to believe that Super Bowl LX aka Super Bowl 60 was  played last Sunday. Jim and I have never been to a Super Bowl party outside of our home. We haven't watched every super bowl but the ones we've watched have always been together. Our children are grown with families of their own and they watch the game with their families in their homes. 

Jim and I have attended the 6:00 pm Mass at our parish for over twenty years. We usually get home in time to watch the last half of the Super Bowl game. I'll heat up leftovers, we'll eat and watch the rest of the game. Our teenage grandson was with us at Mass this past Sunday. He came home with us and ate leftovers as we watched the game. The Patriots had not scored yet and I usually go for the underdog. I hollered at the tv something like, "Come on guys, you've got to get on the board!" He and Jim just shook their heads when I yelled from my chair for the running back to, Go! Go! Go!  They scored a touchdown! I said, "See, they just needed me here to cheer them on." They both laughed at that remark. Yes, I know the Patriot's lost, but at least there wasn't a big fat goose egg on the scoreboard anymore.

Several years ago, I bought Jim a musical card for either Valentine's or our Anniversary that had part of the lyrics to "Happy Together" by The Turtles. It was a hit in 1967. We used to listen to "The Oldies but Goldies" a lot and when that song would play we would always sing a certain refrain together. It's an upbeat, sweet song. Anyway, sometimes when things are crazy, hectic, etc. one of us will sing this refrain from that song, "So happy together, how is the weather?" and then we'll both laugh. Because you know what, memories, love, laughter and tears all go together. Take time today to remind your loved ones just how much they mean to you! Life is short, the days and years pass by so quickly. Don't argue about silly things that don't matter. Forgive quickly and move on. Be thankful for the simple things in life! Trust in God, pray always, and take care of your family. 

1 Corinthians 13:13

So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love.


About five and a half years ago, Jim used a green pecan and wrote our initials on the sidewalk in our backyard! It eventually faded but I still remember how that sweet gesture touched my heart. 

Peace and blessings to you and yours,

near and far, wherever you are!

Bye for now, Sharla